Feeling, it comes naturally from your heart. It is involuntary, you can't control it, you can't hide it, you can't deny it. Therefore, other people can't judge it. When someone tells you about how he feels, you should respect it, you can't judge it.
Living in Australia, I can see how different Australian and Chinese react upon other people's feelings and points of view. When you tell an Australian what you feel, for example, you tell him that you feel angry about something. He will just answer, 'Oh, I see.' They respect your feeling, because they know that feeling is a personal matter. On the contrary, if you tell a Chinese about your anger, he may says, 'Why do you feel angry, it is wrong to feel angry about this, and baa baa baa.' That's annoying.
You know, there was a thing that made me angry and there's a person tried to stop me from feeling angry and even tried to tell me that feeling angry on that thing is wrong. That's disagreeable. I don't want to tell the details here as I think it is just a trifle. But I really feel annoyed about that person's reaction. ROAR!
If you are my friend, if you know me, you know that I feel angry all the time, I can feel angry on many things even on something unimportant. But, I think you also know that my anger vanish quickly. So, when I am angry, what you should do is to ignore me or just stay to listen and listen and listen (Paulie knows it well, haha). Thank you.
